Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Completed and FAXED Insurance Forms to Dad’s dentist.



Dad will see a new dentist today. Friends will transport him in his wheelchair since he is unable to walk. He has been excited about going all week long.

I went to Aetna’s website, downloaded a dental form, completed it and FAXED it, (along with copy of Dad's insurance card) to the new dentist.

Technology certainly helps this long distance caregiver to do her job.

Monday, May 18, 2009

Elderly and Technology


The 'Nana' generation
BY ANA VECIANA-SUAREZ
aveciana@MiamiHerald.com

As the American population ages and grandparents become more tech-savvy, a growing number of manufacturers are designing souped-up -- or stripped-down -- gadgets for the senior set. The devices boast larger fonts, brighter lights, bigger knobs and louder sound.

The generation that grew up before the arrival of TV, the dawn of cellphones and the advent of the Internet may prove to be the healthiest segment of the tech market yet. From talking pill bottles to bathroom scales that record information for physicians, these gadgets are part of what some have dubbed ''nana'' technology.

''In a market that has stayed essentially flat, this makes good business sense,'' says Robin Raskin, New York-based tech consultant who has advised such companies as Sony, Intel and Nickelodeon. ``You're going to see a whole bunch of designers doing a whole lot of focus groups and testing to try out their products.

``Actually, they already are.''

Wearing special suits or equipment to simulate the effects of advancing age, researchers and designers use ''empathy sessions'' to develop devices. The AgeLab at MIT, for instance, recently released AGNES 2.0, which consists of pads and elastic wraps that hamper movement in order to imitate the effect of arthritis and spinal deterioration. The Macklin Intergenerational Institute in Ohio asks trainees to wear vision-impairing glasses before trying to read maps. And at GE's industrial headquarters, some employees shove cotton balls in their ears to simulate hearing loss.

Seniors tend to adopt technology for specific reasons: safety, health, independence or social engagement. They also want easy-to-use gadgets that compensate for diminishing vision and hearing.

The perfect example is the Jitterbug phone, with its ear cushion that reduces background noise and a speaker that makes the sound loud and clear. It also has bigger, backlit buttons and bright text.

''Our research shows that they're anxious to participate,'' says Sara Czaja, co-director of the Center on Research and Education for Aging and Technology Enhancement at the University of Miami. ``But they're looking for specific things -- usefulness and not too complicated features.''

SILVERS SUMMIT

What's more, unlike those bulky senior-friendly products of yore, the new generation of gadgets comes in attractive sizes and shapes -- and for a dizzying variety of purposes. The appeal, and the need, is such that the annual Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas hosted its first all-day Silvers Summit Conference on devices and technologies this past January.

Among the senior-friendly devices are navigation systems that find comfortable routes, simplified TV remotes, bathroom scales that asks how you're feeling and records answers for your physician, and washing machines with large knobs that also make a louder noise when they're set -- for customers with arthritis or impaired vision or hearing.

Marketing studies show that America's seniors are very receptive to technology and are using lots of it already -- under the right conditions. Seventy-eight percent of 50- to 54-year-olds are online, as are 45 percent of 70- to 75-year-olds, according to a study conducted for the Consumer Electronics Association. More than seven million boomers own gaming systems and 29 million own digital video recorders. Another survey found that DVD players, digital still cameras, broadband and cellphones were the most popular gadgets for the 60-and-over set.

Terry Rohm is one of them. When her daughter vacationed in Colorado in April, the retired school administrator followed her grandchildren's antics on Twitter. To exercise, she uses the popular Wii Fit and keeps in almost-daily contact with her other children in Atlanta via e-mail.

''Once you get past the fear factor, it's fun to use,'' Rohm says of her gadgets. ``You don't have to use everything, just what you want and need.''

TOO BIG TO IGNORE

Raskin, the tech expert who was a Silvers Summit co-founder at this year's electronics show, says the ''time is ripe for attention'' after years of benign neglect from retailers and advertisers who traditionally focused on the younger set. Now the senior market is too big to ignore -- and experts predict it will only get bigger.

Americans age 65 and older make up more than 12 percent of the population. By 2030 they'll comprise about 20 percent, with those over 75 clocking the fastest growth. When you count Americans 50 and older, that number swells to 31 percent of the U.S. population.

Moreover, this group has disposable income. The 78 million Americans who were 50 or older as of 2001 controlled 67 percent of the country's wealth and accounted for an estimated $2 trillion in total expenditures in 2005, according to SmartSilvers Alliance, an organization that promotes the development of consumer-friendly products for seniors.

If you factor in baby boomers, those born between 1946 and 1964, the number of seniors will comprise a demographic tidal wave. ''It's that cohort, the 74 million strong, that has been the tipping point,'' says Elinor Ginzler, a senior vice president for AARP. ``They want things for their parents and for themselves. The market is simply responding to the demand of sheer volume and spending power.''

KEEPING IN TOUCH

Suanne Piero of Coral Gables keeps in touch with her far-flung relatives -- a son in Australia, another in Charlotte, a sister in Vancouver and a brother in San Diego -- through the Internet. She loves to watch videos on her DVD, and her favorite device once sounded like science fiction to her: Skype.

Using a webcam and the free Skype software downloaded from the Internet, she talks to her son, daughter-in-law and 9-month-old granddaughter, Victoria, two and three times a day from their home in Victoria, Australia. She has watched the little girl crawl, eat, smile and coo as if she were in the same room.

''It's so wonderful!'' she says. ``I've been able to see all the phases of her growing up. She knows who I am. She even waves at me.''
Piero admits she was a bit reluctant about using Skype. But after her first experience, she was hooked. ''I wouldn't have ventured out if not for my granddaughter,'' she says. ``But I rave about it to my friends all the time.''

Some predict that many of these gadgets will find acceptance in the general population. We're already seeing this as manufacturers make their devices, originally intended for the older market, more aesthetically appealing
''If they're universally user-friendly -- and that's the point -- you don't have to be of a certain age to want them,'' says Majd Alwan, director of the Center for Aging Services Technologies in Washington, D.C. ``These can make life easier for all of us.''

Thursday, May 14, 2009

HBO Series on Alzheimer's is Well Done

Pension Check Direct Deposit-Dad Resists Change Again

I finally arranged for Dad's pension check to be directly deposited into his bank account. Checks can get lost in the mail and I dont have to worry about extra unecessary trips to the bank.

Naturally, it is a change he resists.

Elder Parenting 101-Chapters in my book


Elder Parenting 101
Doing Your Best When You Don’t Know What To Do

Chapters

1 Overview and History of Caregiving Industry
2 Planning-Your Most Important Step
3 Formalizing Mom and Dad’s Wishes
4 Living Options
5 Hiring Help
6 Keeping Them Home-Theirs or Yours
7 Mental Health and Alzheimer’s
8 Long Distance Caregiving
9 Caregiver-Coping Tools
10 Final Arrangements
Appendix

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Changes I have observed

This is not a happy post.

I continue to observe signs of declining levels of motivation among the caregiver staff. I am not certain what is driving this and I am not sure how to restore motivation to prior levels of enthusiasm. Ever since we lost Mom a year ago, I notice that more and more duties are being neglected.

Dad’s personality makes it a challenge as he can be demanding, insulting, mean, manipulative, impatient, horny, and resistant to any level of change.

I continue to hope for the best.

Dad Keeps Proposing to Mom's Friends


I wish Dad would stop proposing to my Mom's friends. It is inappropriate, embarrassing, and it is creepy!

Today, he asked Juanita to be his wife as soon as she walked in. He has not seen her in a year, she is angry with him for groping Mom in the nursing home, and she is almost 95!

Next, he asked Vivian, the night time caregiver, to be his wife.

He says he does not know why someone would not "jump at the chance...."

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Visiting Juanita a Year After Mom's Funeral

Facebook post

Karla Scott off to visit my Mom's closest friend, Juanita---she broke her hip en route to my Mom's funeral a year ago today!